A girlfriend IMs, calls &visits my boyfriend without copying me? Is she being decent or sneaky?

Good thing you ended this friendship with her. I am not friends with any of my girlfriends boyfriends on more then a double date kind of level because I know how it gets every girls green eye roving. My friendship is always more important then making friends with their boyfriends and I would rather not put that strain on it. Certainly none of my friends disrespect my wishes like that either, or else they are out the door. Good thing you gave her the boot becuase you asked her not to hang out with your boyfriend and she did anyways, she was no friend of yours. She sounds like a boyfriend stealer otherwise she would have valued your wishes as a friend more, she defenatly sounds like she had ulterior motives.