Have you read Kathy Lette's "How to Kill Your Husband"?

Sounds like a great, funny book. Will have to look for it. As for love, hoover and obey, no, I sure didn't as I literally had the OBEY part removed from our traditional wedding vows- in the middle of the ceremony as I hadn't realized that was really in traditional vows. I was horrified and told the minister I wasn't vowing to do that for anyone. It got a laugh from all and 22 years later I still like to, on occasion, remind him I had that removed. LOL Love him dearly though and he isn't the type of man that wants a wife to obey him or I wouldn't have married him! As for hoover, nah, I am an Eureka lady and actually get some sort of theutic mental therapy from cleaning with that darn thing so I would have vowed to "hoover." LOL